Regress to Progress

Dementia care through the lens of childhood wisdom and experience.

When we launched Back to the Beginning, we knew we were stepping into tender territory. Dementia is not only complex; it’s deeply personal. And so is the way we talk about it.

You may have noticed that we often use words like “regression” and compare certain experiences in dementia care to early childhood development. We understand this could raise eyebrows or even concern. That’s why we want to be crystal clear:

We are not suggesting that adults with dementia should be treated like children.

We are suggesting that by recognizing the mirrored patterns between developmental stages and dementia progression, caregivers can better understand how to respond with empathy, patience, and love.

This approach is what we call developmental compassion. It doesn’t diminish anyone’s dignity—it deepens it.

In the same way we honor a toddler’s needs as they grow, we can honor our elders’ shifting needs as they change. Regression isn’t about going backwards in value or worth—it’s about returning to simplicity, to safety, to connection.

Through Baby Shi, we offer a symbolic reminder: everyone deserves to be met where they are with grace. And yes, that sometimes means ice cream for breakfast or a lullaby at sunset.

At Back to the Beginning, we believe:

• The end of memory doesn’t mean the end of meaning.

• Simple joys can still be sacred.

• And seeing life “in reverse” can help us show up fully—right now.

This isn’t about infantilization. This is about insight.

We see the sacred in the cycle.

We see the soul in the sandbox.

And we thank you for walking this path with us.

With deep respect and gentle wisdom,

Jess & Baby Shi

“At Back to the Beginning, we explore dementia care through a developmental lens. Not to diminish, but to deepen compassion. We believe in honoring each person exactly as they are—not by treating them like children, but by seeing their current needs through the lens of love and respect. It’s not regression to be feared. It’s reconnection to be cherished.”

Jess T.

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